Abortion still frowned upon?

by Curswell Tshihwela

Even though abortion is legalised in South Africa, many people still felt betrayed by the government when they legalised it as it is assumed as ungodly. Abortion is very common, and people have abortions for many different reasons. Only you know what’s best for you, but it is important to gather as much information as you can and feel supported in order to allow you to make a decision that is best for your own health and well-being. Abortion has, however (which is the ending of a pregnancy by the removal of an embryo or fetus before it can survive outside the uterus) has taken over the world by shock worldwide not just in South Africa.

Even though there is termination that occurs without intervention which is known as a miscarriage or spontaneous abortion, negative opinions against abortion will never stop. Everyone decides to terminate for a variety of sometimes not understood but valid reasons. Some of the many different reasons people decide to end pregnancy include:

  • They want to be the best parent possible to the kids they already have.
    They’re not ready to be a parent yet.
  • It’s not a good time in their life to have a baby.
  • They want to finish school, focus on work, or achieve other goals before having a baby.
  • They’re not in a relationship with someone they want to have a baby with.
  • They’re in an abusive relationship or were sexually assaulted.
  • The pregnancy is dangerous or bad for their health.
  • The fetus won’t survive the pregnancy or will suffer after the birth.
  • They just don’t want to be a parent.

Deciding to have an abortion doesn’t mean you don’t want or love children. In fact, 6 out of 10 people who get abortions already have kids — and many of them decide to end their pregnancies, so they can focus on the children they already have. And people who aren’t already parents when they get an abortion often go on to have a baby later when they feel they are in a better position to be a good parent. The bottom line is, deciding if and when to have a baby is very personal, and only you know what’s best for you and your family. If you’re thinking about having an abortion, you’re so not alone. Millions of people face unplanned pregnancies every year, and about 4 out of 10 of them decide to get an abortion. Some people with planned pregnancies also get abortions because of health or safety reasons.

Overall, 1 in 4 women in the U.S. will have an abortion by the time they’re 45 years old. You need to think of things like family, relationships, school, work, life goals, health, safety, and personal beliefs — people think carefully about these things before having an abortion. But you’re the only person walking in your shoes and the only person who can decide whether to have an abortion. The decision is 100% yours. Here are some things to consider if you are thinking about an abortion:

  • Am I ready to be a parent?
  • Would I consider adoption?
  • What would it mean for my future if I had a child now?
  • What would it mean for my family if I had a child now?
  • How would being a parent affect my career goals?
  • Do I have strong personal or religious beliefs about abortion?
  • Is anyone pressuring me to have or not have an abortion?
  • Would having a baby change my life in a way I do or don’t want?
  • Would having an abortion change my life in a way I do or don’t want
  • What kind of support would I need and get if I decided to get an abortion?
  • What kind of support would I need and get if I decided to have a baby?

Decisions about your pregnancy are deeply personal. You hold the power to make decisions that are best for you in order to have a life that is without regret. There are lots of things to consider, and it’s totally normal to have many different feelings and thoughts when making this decision. That’s why it’s important to get factual, non-judgmental information about abortion. Support from family, friends, partners, and other people you trust can also be helpful. But at the end of the day, only you know what’s right for you. Lots of people lean on others to help them with their decision. It’s good to choose people who you know are understanding and supportive of you.

Your local Planned Parenthood health center has caring professionals that can answer any questions you may have. They’ll give you expert care, accurate information about all your options, and non-judgmental support along the way — no matter what you decide about your pregnancy. Other family planning centers and private doctors may also talk with you about your decision. But be careful when looking for a reliable health center, because there are fake clinics out there that claim to offer information about pregnancy options and abortion. They’re called Crisis Pregnancy Centers, and they’re run by people who don’t believe in giving you honest facts about abortion, pregnancy, and birth control. Crisis pregnancy centers are often located very close to Planned Parenthood health centers or other real medical centers, and have similar names — they do this to confuse people and trick them into visiting them instead.

No one should pressure you into making any decision about your pregnancy, no matter what. So it’s important to get the info and support you need from people who give you the real facts and won’t judge you. If you’re having a hard time finding someone in your life to talk with, check out All-Options.

One thought on “Abortion still frowned upon?

  1. I agree, it’s a woman’s right to chose whether she wants to go through with a pregnancy or not! It saddens me that here in the US they are literally making it illegal in certain states for women to have an abortion, and you can even face jailtime if you have a miscarriage and they believe you were at fault for it! There aren’t any special circumstances either to get an abortion, therefore, if you’re sexually assualtd and get pregnant, you must carry the child to full term and give birth to it. If your health is at risk, it doesn’t matter. You have to have the baby and risk your own life.

    It’s sad times in the US right now, and as a woman, it scares me.

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